Sukhvinder Javeed

She walked into rooms built to shrink her

And left them rearranged.

Sukhvinder Javeed, with long dark hair and a gold chain, looking straight at the camera

I never hid.

The book£19.98
Inventor, co-founder of SPHYNX Tequila, author.

Big Brother UK, 2017Channel 5, series 18. She walked in on day one.

Day 12. She walked out the front door.The first housemate ever to leave that way.

Reading every person in that house within minutes, because I already could.

How she got here

The full story

Leeds

Leeds girl has other plans

Working-class, Sikh Jatt, born into a culture with very firm ideas about what a woman like her was for.

Married1995

The marriage nobody gave a chance

She married across religion before anyone was quick enough to tell her she couldn't. Thirty years on, people are still working out how it lasted.

Sukhvinder and Imran Javeed, both in black, each holding a SPHYNX decanter
With Imran. Photo: SPHYNX Tequila

Leeds Metropolitan University

Two babies, one degree

Postnatal depression nobody diagnosed, in a decade nobody discussed it. She put herself through university anyway.

Business2012

Leeds mum's invention lands in Tesco and Mothercare

She invented the MilkySnugz baby bottle comforter, flew to China to find a factory, and got it into Tesco, Mothercare and Toys R Us, with exports to the USA, Russia and South Africa. Theo Paphitis named it a Small Business Sunday winner in June 2013.

The MilkySnugz range: six plush animal comforters, each holding a baby bottle
The MilkySnugz range. Photo: MilkySnugz

Awards2015

Entrepreneur of the Year

Named Entrepreneur of the Year at the British Indian Awards 2015.

After the house2023

She stopped asking

People queued up to tell her what to say, how to sit, when to soften. In 2023 she and her husband Imran launched SPHYNX Tequila. Its Cristalino Añejo took Bronze at the IWSC in 2025.

Sukhvinder Javeed in dark glasses, holding the cat-head decanter of SPHYNX Cristalino Añejo
With the Cristalino Añejo. Photo: SPHYNX Tequila

NowThe book

She wrote it all down

One book, where she finally wrote down how she sees what she sees.

Read the 33 Laws

The book

This book will ruin your excuses

You can thank me later. 33 Laws to Make a Hoe a Housewife: the framework for everyone who already knew something was wrong, and is finally ready to know what.

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